Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
2 Corinthians 6:14
See yourself as the light of God. Light shines through darkness and where light is, darkness has no business. It only makes sense therefore to surround yourself with people who have the light of God as well. The reason for this is that, when you are in trouble or come into any circumstances that may cause your faith to shake, your partner in light will strengthen you and lift you up.
When you walk with someone with darkness in their heart, they may corrupt you into losing your light. They may even try to over shadow your light to the point that you will lose your light completely.
When choosing a boyfriend, choose one who is God-centered. Choose one who is not self-centered. Choose one who cares about the needs of other people and is motivated by the things of God and not thoughts of destruction.
As mentioned before, who you associate with determines who you eventually become. You are only as good as the company you keep. If your boyfriend is mischevous, drinks, is into drugs, or is promiscuous, there will be a high chance that you will do the same thing or be drawn into that kind of life.
With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth talk.
Proverbs 7:21
Solomon speaks to his son about the spirit of lust in this chapter and compares it to a prostitute who takes a young man into her chamber and commits sinful acts with him. In the same way you can be led astray by lustful desires.
Your boyfriend should not be someone who leads you into sin. Your boyfriend should not be someone who is abusive, unbelieving and insensitive to the needs and cares of other people.
A boyfriend who does not share your desire to serve God and others should not be entertained. A boyfriend who does not listen or care about your feelings is not a good one.
When you meet people who you think would potentially be a good boyfriend test them against the spirit of the Lord. See if you can find the gentle traits of God in that person. Are they gentle, patient, caring, loving, devoted to good, resistant to evil, full of belief, full of faith, and care about the needs of others. Note that bad boyfriends do not become good husbands automatically.
As a christian, you must be led by the spirit if you decide to date somebody. Know that this person becomes an integral part of your life. That means that the influences they bring on you must not make you worse but make your life better.
Prayer is the act of reflecting the will of God in your physical life. So let us pray that God manifests His qualities in the person you want to call your boyfriend.
Prayers for my boyfriend to change
Prayer for an abusive boyfriend to change
Dear Lord,
I ask for Your help for my abusive boyfriend. Please touch his heart and cool his temper. Help him find the peace and calm he so desperately needs within himself. Save him from the demons that trouble his mind and grant him the strength to manage his triggers. Keep him safe from harms way and help him gain control over his temper. Protect me from any outbursts, and give me the courage and wisdom to know how to navigate this situation. Guide him to find himself and fulfill the person You destined him to be.
Amen.
Prayer for promiscuous boyfriend to change
Dear Lord,
I come to You with a heavy heart, asking for Your help for my boyfriend. Please help him overcome the lust that troubles his heart and give him the strength to control his urges. I feel the pain of his infidelity as he keeps on cheating on me. I pray that You refocus his mind and remind him that he is so much better than this. Cleanse his thoughts, and let the Holy Spirit take control over him. Let him not be quick to sin and remove all demonic influences in his life. Guide him to focus on Your word, and let him fall deeply in love with You. Help him understand his place in Your divine plans.
Amen.
Prayer for an unbelieving boyfriend to change
Heavenly Father,
I pray that my boyfriend encounters You in a powerful way. Just as You transformed Saul into Paul, I ask that You give my boyfriend a new name and a new beginning. Save him from the influence of the world and the destructive path he is on. Lead him to find Jesus and help him discover his true inheritance in You. Grant him a total change of heart and redirect his steps towards Your light. Let him believe in Your love and grace, and let Your light shine upon him.
Amen.
Prayer for healing for my sick boyfriend
Dear Lord in Heaven,
I come before You, seeking healing for my boyfriend. Please heal him from his ailments, as the doctors have done all that is humanly possible. What is hard for man is easy for You. Be his Redeemer and redeem his health. Help him find the strength to rise from his weakness. No matter the disease that resides within him, and no matter the ailments in his body, replace them with Your divine health. Retrieve him from the jaws of death and be his miracle. And let his recovery stand as a powerful testimony of Your goodness and love.
Amen.
Prayer for drug addicted boyfriend to change
Dear Lord,
I ask for Your divine cleansing over my boyfriend. Let Your holy spirit wash over him, cleansing his mind and spirit. Break this addiction and empower him to never return to it again. Grant him the strength to withstand temptation and let him strive to be free and clean. Remove every trace of addiction from his blood and help him to never crave it again.
Restore his health and change his life. Bring back the good relationships he once had. Guide him into Your presence and help him turn his back on drugs. May his new life be richer and more fulfilling than his past.
Amen.
Prayer for visionless boyfriend to find purpose and direction
Dear Lord,
I ask that You help my boyfriend find himself and discover his true purpose in life. Motivate him to strive for something meaningful and guide him away from aimlessness and visionlessness. Give him a clear plan, and let his life have meaning. Let his future align with Your divine plans for him.
Help him not to waste his life, but rather to overcome laziness, boredom, and nonchalance. Grant him a strong mandate and deliver him from the company of those who would lead him astray.
Touch him with Your power and impart wisdom to him. Let Your grace and favor be his portion always.
Amen.
Prayer for my boyfriend’s future plans
Heavenly Father,
I come before You to ask for blessings upon my boyfriend. Keep his heart pure and filled with love. Grant him wisdom, grace, and favor in all that he does. May his future be bright and full of promise, and provide him with the help he needs to succeed.
Bless his finances and let my presence in his life be a source of encouragement and support. Help me to be a good partner to him, nurturing and uplifting him in every way.
I pray that all heartbreak from the past be forgotten, and that nothing from his history haunts him. Let him step into a glorious future with You at the center of his life.
Amen.
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Prayer for boyfriend’s job
Heavenly Father,
I lift up my boyfriend to You, asking for Your divine assistance in his workplace. Give him the strength to persevere each day, and fill him with wisdom to progress in his endeavors. Let him rise higher and higher, excelling in all he does.
I pray that You destroy any evil plans set against him and unleash Your angels to watch over him, keeping him safe from harm. Remove all accidents from his path and let his promotions come swiftly.
Bless him financially and motivate him to work harder, igniting a passion for success within him. Bring him all the success he truly deserves.
Amen.
Prayer for my boyfriend’s friends
Heavenly Father,
I come before You today asking for Your guidance in my boyfriend’s life. Help him find good company and lead him away from wicked friends. Surround him with people who will keep him out of trouble and inspire him to grow positively.
Protect him from those who are drunkards or drug addicts, and save him from people who wish to destroy him. Open his eyes, Lord, so he can discern between true friends and those who are not genuine and just want to take advantage of him.
Help him to recognize those who would destroy him and those who would help him. Help him discren between the two. Remove any betrayers from his life and shield him from plotters who seek to do him harm.
Keep him under Your divine care and protection always, Lord.
Amen.
Prayer for struggling boyfriend
Dear Father,
I come to You today, asking for deliverance for my boyfriend from his troubles. Help him overcome his worries and let the situations he faces turn around for his good. Make his mountains flat and transform his worries into joy.
Grant him solutions to his problems and assist him in areas where he feels helpless. Give him the wisdom to navigate what he can control and the strength to accept what he cannot.
Cause him to move in the direction You have planned for him, and let his path be straight. Bless him in all his movements, and destroy any evil plotted against him. Let every trap set for him fail, and grant him victory over anything he is struggling with.
In Jesus' mighty name, I pray,
Amen.
Look at your boyfriend now and decide if you want him in your future. Decide if you want your kids to be around him and to grow to be like him. Decide right now the kind of man you want in your future. If they do not meet the requirements then ask God to lead you.
When you plan to make over your house you try your possible best to get the people who are the best equipped to do the jobs in your house. You try to get the best painter, plumber, mason, electrician and designer to be able to get the best features for your house.
When you are planning who to spend your life with someone, apply the same if not better scrutiny and care. Find out how the person is in every situation so you know what they will be like when any of such situations arise.
They must be gentle when they need to be, firm, fair, kind, full of grace, and most importantly they must love the LORD. Let them be part of your prayers every day because they have a huge role to play in your future.
Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?
Amos 3:3